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November 14, 2011 at 4:16 pm #769

Adam Rhodes

An Open Rhode Moment is a short story of a defining moment in your life, a story of when your eyes opened up to who you truly are, or any inspiring, moving, important moment that you may have and want to share…..and I know you have one.

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  • November 15, 2011 at 4:38 pm #779

    Adam Rhodes

    My first semester at college was spent at SUNY Geneseo. I went there partly because I wanted a liberal arts education, but mostly because my parents made me. I knew from my first day there that it wasn’t right for me, but I thought maybe I could take that path and things would work out eventually. After a couple months I realized that it just wasn’t going to work. I remember the day it all clicked…I was sitting in my friends room playing video games with a couple of the guys that I hung out with and all of a sudden I felt REALLY out of place. I left the room and called my parents saying, “I am either moving to Israel and living on a kibbutz or going to Berklee.” After that phone call they understood how strongly I felt about going to Berklee and I began a life of making my own decisions and following my own path.

    November 15, 2011 at 6:10 pm #780

    Ben

    I know this is a bit cheesy, but it’s the truth. Every summer from when I was in middle school until my later years of undergrad, I attended a summer camp. I learned a lot from those summers, including the path that I should take in my life. It began to become clear to me one day when I was eating lunch in the dining hall. I was 15 (an older camper) and sitting with one of my favorite counselors at a table of younger campers. One of the kids had been wrongfully accused of a crime (maybe taking the last serving on the plate and not refilling it or something along those lines), and the rest of the table was ganging up on him and trying to get him to refill it. The counselor at the table didn’t know that they were lying and decided that the camper would have to clean the whole table as a punishment. This really bothered me and I butted into the situation telling them what I had seen. This is the earliest situation I can remember of feeling a need to protect people that are at a disadvantage and because of that feeling I went into law school. I now am a Public Defender representing people that have a disadvantage in our legal system. I think your music and message are great, keep it up!

    November 15, 2011 at 7:26 pm #781

    Anonymous

    So my freshman year of college was a bit crazy. I guess I completely lost myself and drank and partied a lot. But I think some people need to do it and get it out of their system. Anyways, one morning I woke up feeling absolutely horrible and thought to myself “why am I doing this?” Part of the reason was because I never lived that life before and I wanted to give it a try, but it was mostly because I didn’t know what to do with my life and it was an escape. There really wasn’t a single moment where things started to make sense, but after I stopped partying so much I began trying new opportunities (Volunteering, joining clubs, intermural sports). Nothing seemed to really excite me while in the activity, but afterwards I always found myself thinking about the people I had been with and why they were the way they were. My interest in this led me to take an introduction to sociology class which completely captivated my attention. I couldn’t get enough of it. I am now set to graduate this year with a degree in cultural studies. Where this will all take me, I have no idea.

    November 16, 2011 at 1:51 am #784

    Phoebe

    Love your music…I guess y “moment” was when I was a junior in high school….That’s when I decided to follow my dream of becoming an artist instead of following the path my family had chosen for me….It was hard and my parents did not want to support me financially but I felt that if this was something I wanted to do I was going to try for it. I applied to some state schools and was given a full scholorship to New Paltz in Albany…I graduated with honors and I teach art in the Bronx. I love teaching art and though my family was not supportive in the beginning, they now see I am happy and .value what I do….Sometimes you have to take a chance in life and go for the dream. Glad you are following yours.

    November 16, 2011 at 6:25 am #786

    Becca

    Amazing music Adam. My dream has always been to live in New York, and study design at a prestigious art school. I assumed this was an unrealistic expectation, so I went to Community College my first 2 years to work and save up for a 4-year school. My parents can’t support me, so I settled for only considering state schools that offered graphic design. I was working full-time during my years in Community College at a group home; and I remember one overnight I was up feeling exhausted and defeated that all my work was only leading me to, in my opinion, a mediocre future at a state school most likely not in the city of my dreams. At that moment of exhaustion, I tried picturing the outcome of my life if I were to take a leap of faith and go for what I wanted. So I applied to School of Visual Arts, my life-long dream school, literally the last day of scholarship consideration. It took months to hear back. When I finally did, I found out I received the presidential scholarship, and two outside scholarships. That combined with a good chunk of federal aid allowed me to independently fund my dream education and live in this incredible city. This sounds cliche, but I’ve realized anything can be accomplished when you believe it can happen. And you’re living proof of this! Truly inspiring.

    November 16, 2011 at 7:55 am #787

    Jack

    In high school, I was known as the piano guy – and I took part in every musical activity available. Concert Band, Orchestra, Jazz Band – I even sang in the Choir. Music was my life, but the only music program available at college in my hometown was a three-year classical piano performance degree. Since I didn’t want to pursue piano performance or teaching, I quickly ruled out that option and went with the “safe” path of a double degree in law and finance.

    Throughout the five-year double degree program, I had no interest in my classes and knew I didn’t want to work in either of those fields. However, I stuck with it because I didn’t want to give up. Before I knew it, I had graduated and was about to take the Bar Exam. A part of me was resigned to the fact that I would just become a lawyer and get over my dreams of being a professional musician. However, in the back of my mind I knew I would always regret it if I didn’t at least try to turn music into a job.

    Around this time, I was looking into music schools and came across Berklee College of Music in Boston. A school of contemporary music offering twelve different majors geared specifically towards the music industry sounded exactly like what I was looking for. On a whim, I sent in an application. It felt like the right time to take a few risks.

    On September 1st 2006, I received an email from Berklee’s Admissions Office informing me that I had been accepted to start in Spring 2007. That would turn out to be a life-changing moment for me. I packed my bags for Boston, and had the time of my life at a college where I was surrounded by like-minded musicians and an amazing faculty. Since I had a genuine interest in my class material, it was easy for me to excel academically. During my seven semesters, I also took part in student clubs, worked as a student advisor to freshmen, and forged some deep friendships. It was one of the most well-balanced and fulfilling periods of my life.

    In May 2010, I graduated from Berklee with a degree in Contemporary Writing & Production, Summa Cum Laude. It was a great ending to my experiences in Boston, but what made Commencement even more memorable was the honor of giving the student speech. From there, I made another bold move and shipped all of my belongings to Los Angeles with only an internship waiting for me. For over a year now, I’ve been living in Santa Monica and working for a leading music production company. Pretty soon, I hope to do something big – something challenging and creatively fulfilling.

    November 22, 2011 at 12:10 pm #830

    Bill

    Hey love your music man…..I think that sometimes when the times are tough it forces us to grow and that’s what I’m gonna share. I was bullied in high school…It was so bad and I didn’t tell anyone. Basically just took it and felt somehow that if I changed, they would stop it. That wasn’t the case at all. No matter what I did, they always found me. Didn’t matter if I joined them in drinking, being dishonest, or just following the crowd. Never told my parent or teachers or anyone I was close to. I somehow felt it was my fault…..there was one time when a girl I liked was being pushed around and someone bumped into her and her food tray fell and a group of kids surrounded her and started pushing her…I went to help her, the guys started to beat on me..When the fight broke up I had a broken nose and wounded spirit…..Fast forward two years….I’m in college and I see the girl whom I defended in high school. We started talking and married three years later. I’m now a guidance counselor and I always encourage kids to tell their stories that helped them become who they are. You can tell your story through journaling, music, drama, art, or a variety of other ways. In a world where technology reigns, the personal sharing connects us. It lets us see we are not alone in our thoughts. Keep trying to get your music out there….ANd to those of you who are reading this, remember it’s the hard times that sometimes takes us to where we’re supposed to be. You are not alone….

    November 24, 2011 at 12:03 pm #849

    Elaine

    It was 1972 and I was in college. For the first two years my major was ” undecided”. By spring I was getting a lot of pressure to declare my major…At that point I realized that I had no idea what I wanted to be ” when I grew up”. It seemed like a waste to spend a lot of money taking courses that were interesting but did not prepare me for a career. I dropped out of college and got a job in a nursing home as a recreation leader. After a short period of time I realized that I really enjoyed working with people. I loved the old people and the stories that they told. It was during that year I realized I wanted to go into nursing. Though I did not stay working with that population, it was that experience which led me to a longstanding career working with people in the nursing profession. Sometimes, you really have to question what you’re doing before you can figure out what it is you’re supposed to do…..

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